7 September 2010, 10:17 pm
(Sorry if it's long) I met this guy around late March or early April, he used to work where i work now but he moved to a different state and recently came back. When I first met him, we talked a lot, but since he worked in a different department than me we hardly ever talked, but when we did we had good conversation. Well, about late June he asked me what my hobbies where, and I'm the shy girl so I don't talk about my personal life very much, but I told him I liked to play Video games. He just so happened to play the same game and we started playing together. He told me that it was nice to talk outside of work, and that he really liked me. I told him the same thing but that I was moving away in a few months and it would not be fair to him if we became involved, but he told me that he understood and that he could not get in the way of my family.(I'm very close with my family.) We continued to hang out together and I would go to his house and watch movies or play different games at my house(He likes video games a lot.) And well, one thing led to another and we had sex, this was about early August. He was my first. Soon after his best friend came to town, and he became distant from me, and he showed up as *Away* on msn. I called him to see if he wanted to see a movie or something, but he said he was going out with friends. etc. About a week goes by and I don't hear from him. I go to work to pick up my check and as I'm leaving, I see him talking to one of the managers with another girl. I was shocked so I left asap, and i don't think he seen me. I didn't want to make a big deal out of nothing because what if she was family? Well, I asked him what he did later that night and he said "Hung out with his friend and business." About 2 days after that, He breaks up with me over msn saying that he does not think he has enough time for me, with school and work, and that he still loves me and that with me moving and everything, it would be the best if we tried again later. I told him I understood, which I do, but that's why I didn't want to get involved in the first place. He said that we are still friends. But now he does not talk to me at all, and he's always *Away*. I talked to him once about casual conversation and he told me that he was moving to Alaska with one of his friends??? So now, I'm stuck. I really liked him but now he's treating me like crap. I don't know what to do, my heart hurts so bad. =/ Thanks for the help in advance.... Read More »